One of the most supportive realizations and decisions I have made in my life is to BLESS ALL OF IT. No matter the circumstance, no matter how horrible some situation or person may be, no matter what I hear on the news, it has always soothed my soul to Bless it.
This has been such a profound switch from wishing someone or something ill if they have done something horrible, to blessing them and their soul, so they no longer take actions that hurt others; and wishing someone ill is taking a passive action to 'hurt' another.
Blessing all of it, the bank account, the ex-lover, the work situation, the home, all of your friends and family, all of your "enemies". BLESS ALL OF IT.